i just realized that being pregnant is not just tough but it is also dangerous. indeed, being pregnant can make you further from your partner. you and your patner are not on the same wavelength. indeed, once the partner is over the first initial shock, for him, having a baby is like online shopping. he orders a baby and pouff 9 months later, the baby gets delivered! he has a baby!
but for the woman, it is a process ... during 9 months, she goes through all kinds of drastic and uncomprehensible changes, moods, feelings, states of minds, body pains, etc. most of the time, the patner cannot understand or experience those things. it is hard to explain.
just a thought ...
then comes the final sprint - labour + delivery- that's an adventure from another world. the partner may be very supportive during the 9 months and the delivery, but he is not the one doing it. it is different.
a suivre ...
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